Author Kendra Bell host the podcast “Calming Sense” where she discusses mental health related topics. Kendra reached out to find out more about Speak Away the Stigma and what led Christina Lattimore to become a Mental Health Advocate. Check out Calming Sense and find out more about Christina, how mental illness has impacted her family and the future plans for Speak Away the Stigma. Kendra’s … Continue reading The Founder of Speak Away the Stigma shares her story
Once I let go of the holidays were “supposed” to look like, I learned to enjoy the holidays MY way.
If you are worried about having the Holiday Blues here are 7 ways to shoo away those Blues! Continue reading 7 Ways to Shoo the Holiday Blues
Many families share the good, the bad and the ugly with each other, especially spouses. But how do often do spouses speak about their mental health? Some moms and daughters and sons and fathers are best friends, but would they open up about being depressed? In this week’s episode of The Carmichael Show, Cynthia, the wife, and mother (Loretta Devine) is caught crying while she is … Continue reading Mama has “the blues”? The Carmichael Show gets serious about depression
Imagine seeing black spots on a wall, but no one else can see them? What if you heard someone calling your name, but you were home alone? What if your family was trying to poison you or your friends were trying to harm you, or so you thought? This is the reality of someone who has schizophrenia. The reality they experience, the sights and sounds, are not real at all.
Learning more about his illness changed my life. Growing up with a family member with this illness wasn’t easy, but Surviving Schizophrenia changed my life. NIMH, the National Institute on Mental Health, describes schizophrenia as “a chronic, severe, and disabling, brain disorder that has affected people throughout history”. While I don’t have the illness, I am at risk for it. I had to learn about it and learn to live with Schizophrenia because my mother has it. The challenges a family goes through trying to support a loved one with this illness are difficult to describe. I believe the only way a family can survive these trying times, is to first learn about the illness. There are many books that help you understand this disorder. Also, learn about local resources: your local NAMI chapter, your local hospital, and even reach out to a therapist. Once I learned more about the illness, I had I began seeing a therapist, and I would recommend it for anyone that is close with someone suffering from Schizophrenia. There will be incredible highs and lows, and self-care must be a priority. I strongly suggest that if there are children involved, they are educated on the illness given additional support. What I’ve learned about the illness so far: Continue reading “Could you survive Schizophrenia?”
It’s a time for new beginnings! It’s a new chapter in life, but it feels like a whole new book! Freshman year is a year of first and forevers. This is a time when new friends will be made, and experiences will yield life-long lessons. This year of learning and transition will be exciting, yet stressful. One thing that needs to be maintained is … Continue reading 7 Tips for a (Menatlly) Healthy Freshman Year
At about the age of 13 I found out my mother’s diagnosis, it was Schizophrenia. I was reading through some court papers, that I wasn’t supposed to have been reading, and saw it: “…… has been diagnosed with Paranoid Schizophrenia”. I can’t recall exactly how I felt reading it, but I do know I was a bit relived. For the past 5-6 years I knew my mom wasn’t OK, but I didn’t know what was wrong with her. I didn’t know why she always heard voices, I didn’t know why she would get so angry when we told her we didn’t see the things that she saw. I didn’t know why my mother didn’t hug us or tell us that she loved us. I didn’t understand why she thought the breakfast we made for her on mother’s day, had poison or spit in it.
No one talked to us about why my mom was in and out of the hospital, every couple of years. No one in my family told me my mother had Schizophrenia, I read it in court papers. Whenever I had a chance , I would try to find out more information about the illness, but at my age I didn’t understand what I read, so I just stopped. I just accepted that is what my mother had, and to me, she was uncaring, unstable, irresponsible, and angry.
Despite my feelings, I was always grateful for the values she instilled in us at a young age. During the years, when her recovery periods were short, we were able to still take care of ourselves. We knew how to get ourselves off to school, cook for ourselves and do our school work to maintain good grades. I credit that not only to my mother, but also to my grandparents, and the grace of God. It would be almost two decades before I would be able to separate the symptoms of the illness from my mom. She was not the illness. She was just the opposite. During her periods of her recovery, she was a different woman, and I had to learn to remember the confident, hard-working, big-hearted, loving, smart, and somewhat stubborn woman she will always be. Continue reading